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from Pat - Re-Treat
"Vacation is what you take when you
can't take what you've been
taking any longer." |
~Unknown |
I was watching a webcast the other
day about stress and its impact on
the United States. I was surprised
to hear that stress is the number
one factor that contributes to our
aging faster than normal. Number one!
There was also a question that that
was presented that still has me thinking.
There is a link between stress and
vacation levels saying that longer
vacations produce less stress in leaders.
Do the results mean that those who
take longer vacations feel less stressed?
Or is it that the less stressed they
feel, the more vacation they are able
to take? Either way, it's interesting
to think about.
Well, summer is 2/3
over and have you been able to take
a holiday? I use the word holiday
because it sounds so European and
classic to me. I started to take a
look at some of the words associated
with vacation and here's what
I found:
- HOLIDAY: originates
before 950 from the Old English
word "haligdaeg" meaning "Holy
Day". This was a day
fixed by law or custom on
which ordinary business is
suspended in commemoration
of some event or in honor
of some person. It has come
to mean a period of cessation
from work or one of recreation
or vacation.
- VACATION: 1350-1400,
Latin "vacation" meaning
freedom from something. It
is a period of suspension
of work, study, or other activity,
usually used for rest, recreation,
or travel; recess or holiday.
Freedom or release from duty,
business, or activity.
- RECREATION:
1350-1400, Middle English "recreacioun" meaning
restoration, recovery re+creation.
- VACATE:
1635-45, Latin "vacates" meaning
to be empty. To leave; go
away.
- RETREAT:
1880-85 Middle English "retret" meaning
to draw back. A place of refuge,
seclusion, or privacy. An
asylum, as for the insane.
re+treat.
So when we think
of your stress level and a way you
can decrease it, think of a re-treat
and treating yourself again to some
time away.
My wish for you the rest
of this summer is when you are on
holiday, enjoy your vacation time
in one of your favorite recreational
areas and vacate your mind of worries.
Retreat to seclusion and privacy (or
to an asylum)...it's your
choice.
"A
vacation should be just long
enough that you're boss misses
you, and not long enough for
him to discover how well he
can get along without you." |
~Anonymous |
Step into leading and play a Bigger
Game in your life...don't
wait...model leadership...the
World needs us to do this...and do
this by retreating.
Lead Strong!
Pat
A study had been conducted
in large organizations undergoing
reorganizations, to identify how
people coped with stress. Researchers
observed that while most people exhibited
high levels of stress symptoms, some
individuals seemed to be thriving,
and were able to transform stress
into a productive, rather than destructive,
process.
These "stress-hardy" individuals
all had certain traits in common:
they viewed themselves as in control of their circumstances; they felt
a commitment to their work and to
the organization; and they saw the
changes going on as a challenge rather
than a threat to their well-being.
(Later studies added a 4th variable:
a sense of connection to one's
co-workers and/or strong social support
networks.)
1. CONTROL
(VS. POWERLESSNESS)
- Focus
on what you can control; try
to let go of the rest
- May not be
able to control feelings, but
can control how you express them
- Can
also control: attitude, overall
outlook, how well you work, how
you treat others, how well you
take care of yourself, daily
routines
2. COMMITMENT
(VS. LACK OF MEANING)
- Having
a sense of purpose in life, and
at work, reduces your susceptibility
to illness
- Normal for
level of commitment to fluctuate
over time
- When
changes occur, time to re-evaluate
goals and renew commitments
3. CHALLENGE
(VS. THREAT)
- Chinese character
for "change" contains
both "crisis" and "opportunity"
- Without
some stress and change, we would
fail to grow and thrive
- To
make a conscious decision to
accept the challenge is energizing
4. CONNECTION
(VS. ISOLATION)
- Importance
of support networks, both at
work and in your personal life
- Someone to talk with, to "reality
check" your
perceptions
- Human need
to feel understood
Source: Unknown
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Recommended Reads with links to Amazon.com
Hot Links!
- Here's a link to
an article about the importance
of vacations, for stress relief,
productivity and health.
- Stress
Management -
a Human Resources article with
links to multiple articles with
tips on managing stress at work,
minimizing workplace negativity,
reducing burnout and much more.
- How
Mini Vacations Treat Stress -
A two and a half minute You
Tube video that reminds us to
take a mental stress break often
throughout the day.
"Quote
For Your Day!"
"Laughter
is an instant vacation." |
~
Milton Berle |
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Pat Obuchowski
CEO, Chief Empowerment Officer
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